For what it's worth (probably not even the proverbial cuppa these days,) I've found over the decades that I always do better with tweens and teens with open questions, and they always astound me with their wisdom. My job has been to have the tissues and snacks and beverages at the ready. "Provide a group hug and honest compliment bombardment for the bully" was one of my favorites, especially since we were teaching kids the importance of "witnessing" and standing with the "victim" at the time. I asked that class of eighth graders to share their reasoning and was blown away: they probably haven't gotten much of that and don't feel very good about themselves; otherwise they'd choose kindness. Hugs and compliments aren't enough, but they're an important first step these kids informed me. I was kinda holding my breath as I asked for the next step. No need. They asked me to wait outside for 3 minutes while they conferred on their answer. We need to get them involved in loving others--maybe the children's hospital we visit, or lawncare for a few of the seniors that we help with. Probably that, cuz those old folks ooze love and appreciation, one offered.
This is the latest reminder to me that I need to go back to church. For the community and service opportunities, and the message of love that Jesus is really about.
For what it's worth (probably not even the proverbial cuppa these days,) I've found over the decades that I always do better with tweens and teens with open questions, and they always astound me with their wisdom. My job has been to have the tissues and snacks and beverages at the ready. "Provide a group hug and honest compliment bombardment for the bully" was one of my favorites, especially since we were teaching kids the importance of "witnessing" and standing with the "victim" at the time. I asked that class of eighth graders to share their reasoning and was blown away: they probably haven't gotten much of that and don't feel very good about themselves; otherwise they'd choose kindness. Hugs and compliments aren't enough, but they're an important first step these kids informed me. I was kinda holding my breath as I asked for the next step. No need. They asked me to wait outside for 3 minutes while they conferred on their answer. We need to get them involved in loving others--maybe the children's hospital we visit, or lawncare for a few of the seniors that we help with. Probably that, cuz those old folks ooze love and appreciation, one offered.
This is such a beautiful description of how to show cross generational curiosity and respect.
Thank you for the reminder that it doesn’t have to be this way.
I needed that reminder myself! And thanks, Jenna!
Agreed.
Thanks Barb
I needed this one, Garrett. Thank you.
Appreciate you, Ted
Teenagers are my all-time favorite theologians. So glad you get to be with them every week; so glad they get you to be their teacher.
This is the latest reminder to me that I need to go back to church. For the community and service opportunities, and the message of love that Jesus is really about.